Saturday, May 3, 2014

CSR activities with the support of Torrent Energy ltd by Nandini

       Torrent Energy Ltd Supported CSR Integrated Activities.
3-day retreat with Kukarwada Village youth
This is a story of ripples created from ripples. Nandini team, along with a group of volunteers, visited the village of Kukarwada, Bharuch district in Gujarat, and spent three days in the village, building rapport with the village youth and women. They conducted small acts of kindness, sanitation and service created an atmosphere of cooperation, joy and fun. The villagers’ hearts were deeply touched by the simple acts of love; and on the third day, the youth tried to repay him as they were leaving by garlanding him and offering presents as a token of their affection.
In true pay-it-forward fashion, Sureshbhai said that they could honor him for helping their village; however, the village would be better off if they decided to do something for the entire village community instead. This remark, created a challenge that triggered a chain of thought about how they could themselves, serve their village. They also realized that their style of living had so far had not equipped them, either in knowledge or spirit, to serve the village. Therefore, the group of youth decided they would visit ESI in Sughad to learn more about the people, technology, and most of all, the spirit behind them; and to multiply it.
Eighteen of the youth, aged 15 to 30 years old got together, contributing Rs. 500 each for the trip, and traveled to Sughad to begin their learning experience. Most of these youth were working at the time as hired
laborers for contractors in construction and other industries. Learning about their intense motivation, Torrent’s Corporate Social Responsibility division contributed towards the remainder of their travel expenses.
Dec 27 to 29, 2013 saw the eighteen village youth in Sughad. They were greeted at the main gate of ESI by a number of volunteers such as Audrey, with brooms. This was a simple reminder of the previous meeting, when ESI volunteers had cleaned up Kukarwada village using brooms. Because the youth were primarily laborers who worked with their hands, they needed to be exposed to a style of working that was primarily hand-based; but which still allowed a balance of head, heart and hand.

Fasting and all other forms of discipline are ineffective without the grace of God.- Gandhiji.

Day 1 focused on the head, or knowledge. The group was given a tour of Sughad and the different sanitation facilities there. The overarching themes were sanitation, environment and village development. Jayeshbhai, Suresh bhai and Kanchan mama shared their thoughts with the youth and asked them to share their thoughts and experiences. A highlight among the talks was Virenbhai’s journey. He spoke about how we can use water and other natural resources to make the community better together. He shared a number
of experiences from his village, illustrating how they could take back these ideas and implement them in their own village. Following this, the youth watched various videos on giftivism, Lead India, Share-and-care, Nimesh’s ‘Being Kind and grateful’ video, etc. The group was so inspired by these videos that they felt inspired to start a similar way of living in their own village; and who better to do it than themselves? After this introduction, they began to think excitedly about what they could practice in the three days at Sughad, and what they could do once they got back home.
Being used to working with their hands, the youth were not habituated to sitting for five hours straight. When it was time for dinner, they felt compelled to begin moving, however, the dinner was planned as a silent dinner. This was a pure novelty for them, as well as quite constraining in terms of the difference from their daily lives. Amazingly, at the end of the dinner, most of them said that while the imposed silence was initially difficult, they were able to eat mindfully. They felt this was the first time they ate well. Usually they felt their stomachs were full, but today, their hearts were full too.
The day concluded with a ‘Circle of sharing’ to reflect on the day’s thoughts and knowledge gained. Each person shared what they learned during the day, the highlight of the day; and how they would like to translate their ideas into practice.
Day 2 focused on the hand. The theme was spirituality and service – the combination and balance of both.
The group participated in the PrabhatPheri (morning songs at Sughad), in the sarva-dharma-prarthana (all-faiths prayer), laughter yoga and labor of love each morning.
After breakfast, each member of the group decided how to use their hand (act) in a good way, with sadbhavana(positive intention) translating intosatkarya (positive action).They discussed about the difference between helping the needy and praying to God; and how they could view helping the needy as service to God. They used Gandhi ashram as their practice area - by cleaning the ashram, playing and helping with the kids at ManavSadhna, and conducting sarva dharma prarthana there. As they toured the ashram, they listened more about Gandhiji’s practices and his thoughts. In a matter of one day, they felt a sense of belonging with the folks at ESI and Gandhi ashram; which increased their own self-confidence as well, allowing them to walk up to people in the ashram, introduce themselves and ask how they can serve.
They had lunch at Safai Vidyalaya’s toilet café, a unique place where the chairs at meal tables are shaped like toilet bowls to remove the stigma surrounding sanitation. As they were eating, they were talking about sanitation and toilets, which is extremely unusual as meal-time conversation. After lunch they also talked with
Jayeshbhai about how service can be done with our hands for a good purpose; whether it be for throwing trash in the dustbins or treating a street urchin with kindness. The group then visited the tekro (community center) at Manav Sadhna. They observed all the activity and interaction between the teachers and children at ManavSadhna; and began to listen to the conversations. This was a novel experience as in their daily jobs, they do not get to listen and use their minds, instead just use their hands. After absorbing the beautiful spirit of interactions, they decided to offer their labor of love at the community center by cleaning the toilets at ManavSadhna. They also met with Nanu-ma (the person who donated her land to the tekro) and had tears in their eyes listening to her experiences. Nanu-ma is passionate about changing village women’s lives and they heard from her what they could to do improve the living conditions for women in villages. The group was blown away by the sheer joy of serving and the learning they had experiences; so they unanimously walked in silence back to Gandhi ashram from the tekro, absorbing the experience; and performing acts of cleaning the ashram by picking up litter, etc. on the way.
They group also visited Amiyapur, a village that was a pilot program for Nandini’s activities, which is walking distance from ESI in Sughad. There they met the village youth group at Amiyapur that had organically come together to serve their village. They asked several questions and learned how the group at Amiyapur puts in work for their village. After coming back to Sughad, they met with Nipunbhai and discussed giftivism; and how they can gift their skills to the community.
They later visited the Akshardham temple to watch the famous water show there, which is a famous tourist attraction. It was the first time they had visited such a place, as their economic conditions prevented their visiting such places. They began to practice their newly-learned skills at Akshardhamby cleaning the place of litter. They also began talking to the various visitors about the water show, and Suresh bhai felt blessed to see the confidence with which the group was mingling with the crowd with ease – a sign that the trip to ESI had helped them increase their own self-confidence as well. They had dinner at the temple and returned to
Sughad at 9:30 pm.
The group itself volunteered to share their experiences that night. From 10 – 11:30 pm, they shared the different experiences, small and big, that had moved them and inspired them. They began to feel that their work, which was earlier merely to earn bread, was now a way to fulfillment as they could share the benefits with others through service. In the two days, they had experienced a change of heart and seen divinity in nature and in others in those days.

Day 3 brought head and hand together through the heart. The day started with prabhatpheri and some labor of love. After getting ready, they met at 9 am in the maitri (friendship) hall. After the collective prayer, Panchoand Rev Heng sure talked to them about prem (love) and karuna (compassion). Guri and Nimo talked to them about their own experiences; including Guri’s walking pilgrimage when she found God in people’s hearts, and Rev. Hengsure’s ‘3 steps and a bow pilgrimage’.
Nimo in his talk converted that to ‘3 steps and a bhaav’. Every 3 steps, the idea was to formulate a positive intention in one’s mind and create space for it in one’s heart. The group began to implement it spontaneously. They created beautiful chalk designs (rangolis) to share beauty. On all of the stone pathways inside Sughad, every 3 steps, they wrote an intention that wished to hold in their hearts and share with the world. The intentions ranged from gratitude to parents, nature, community members, and each entity that helps our life in the world.
Ripples from the retreat began to appear on the 3rd day itself. Watching the Kukarwada youth, others began walking along the pathways performing ‘3 steps and bhaav’. 60 girls who were visiting from PTC (primary teacher training center) they also began doing ‘3 steps and bhaav’ and began holding the intention to share wishingthe feeling towards each person.
Deeply inspired, the Kukarwada village youth offered to take 2 vows – one for themselves, and one for the community.Each person began to come up with small acts of love they could share with others. “I will sit with myself for 5 min.” “I will do prabhaatpheriin my village two days of the week.” “Each day I wake up at 8 am and go to work and my sister cooks for me. Now I will wake up early, at the same time as her, and help her in cooking.” “Whenever I am free I will spend time with children.” “I will bow to parents before going out of the house for work.”
The retreat ended with a lot of fun and dancing on the theme of vasidhaivakutumbakam, which that finally ended in a fun and chaotic way. This was followed by lunch, with sitting in silence. Following this, the group began looking for opportunities to serve and began working in the kitchen, on the ESI campus, etc. To keep
them continued on the path, a group photo, safaisanskaar box (needle+thread, first aid, soap, nail cutter) were given to each as gifts. Filled with gratitude, each member of the group decided to make a special vow (sankalp) for their village. They all sat in silence and vowed that whatever ideas they get when they reach their village, they will implement these ideas and transform their village.
The grup left ESI at 4 pm on the third day after arrival. Each of them had tears in their eyes as they left, because they had made a connection within to ESI and with each other. They left cheering, saying “Abkuch to karenge, kuch to karenge, kuchnakuch to karengeyaar” (We will do something, we shall do something, we shall do something or other, my friend).
Many ripples from this 3-day event were seen almost immediately. The member who pledged to perform prabhatpheri twice a week at his village, now does it every day, and wakes the village to melodious chanting. The group went around their village meeting each and every home to tell people about their experience. They celebrated New Year’s Eve by setting up a large program at short notice and also invited Torrent, the company that sponsored their visit to Sughad. For the New Year’s event, the cleaned the entire village, including the old bus stand and the entry road to the village. They decorated the village with colorful rangolis and fresh mango leaves (an auspicious symbol in India). They invited the entire village to their program, and made snacks and dinner for all the attendees. As part of the program, they presented two prayers learned from ESI, and shared with the villagers their motivation behind cleaning the village and organizing the program. They earned the appreciation, support and unanimous cooperation of the other villagers in their goal of transforming the village.
Since then, the youth group that visited ESI strives to meet each evening. They sit together in a circle and share their experiences of the day, and the acts of kindness the practiced, and inspirations to change their village. They discuss the problems they think are worth solving and try to apply the principles of head, hand and heart, to these. Each person contributes at least half an hour for the village each day, and finally shares their service activity with the group at the end of each day.  Thus, Nandini’s visit rippled out into the Kukarwada youth’s visit and their learning experience over three days; which further spread into an inspired offering that they make to their village each day and become each other’s noble friends.

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1 comment:

  1. Its so nice how CSR activities has been made mandatory, its a very good step on part of the Government. I was looking for a few articles on CSR activities in India and I came across yours inspiring read.

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